hi LadyDestructo

I am sorry you have this problem with your husband. Hopefully a couples therapist will help your relationship and as has been said, choosing a male one might be best. as he might relate better to him. Also, getting him to see a therapist to get the skills to manage his depression and the Dr. to get a really good medication would be helpful. I really hope and pray all of this does improve for you in the future. Take care. God bless and best wishes from your friend Francis