Well I'm larger than a 10 (14 is average by the way) but I am within the healthy BMI. I don't exercise as in going to gyms but I have a very active lifestyle. I feel healthy and I feel fit. I tend to be attracted to the same.; those that may not be greek adonises but watch their health. I have a habit of people watching. For the most part I see partners as a reflection of the same.

Again, my recommendation is not about concentrating on what you think you cannot have but on what you can be and those positive attributes you have or strive to have.