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Originally Posted by Argonautomobile
I wonder what that was like? Crying & being angry is a really human reaction. Part of me thinks that would be touching in its authenticity, but I don't think I could have dealt with it, personally.
For those of you whose T's were angry, did you find that therapeutic?
Conversely, did anyone feel upset/disappointed that their T DIDN'T show stronger emotion?
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It was the first time my T had cried, so I felt really bad for having made her do so. I felt guilty and it was almost painful to see her so upset over something regarding me. Her anger subsided a bit when I told her I can't be angry at this dirtball anymore. I needed to work towards forgiveness and understanding. She agreed, of course. But when we talk about the CSA now, she still get's pissed off. Her reaction ultimately strengthened the bond we now share.