I am sure I carry some anger from some childhood abuses but in the present it is harsh words unnecessarily spoken to me by my family. I have tried so hard to be nice and supportive and yet My husband thought it was funny to be making jokes that were negative and directed at me. He used to scowl at me if I interjected my thoughts in the moment of conversation. If my daughter is angry she just lets loose with really harmful and completely untrue words. She is the one who is feeling lousy. She is trying to feel better by attacking me. It seems like every day has a struggle of its own. Worse, I end up with pain inside. I have spoken up with my husband. I have not with my children. I have a counselor but they don't. I learn how to communicate appropriately but they have not sought help for themselves. Boy, is this generational!