sunny, that was so wonderful. Not, of course, that you are sad and grieving, but that you were able to express it and share it with T. As I've mentioned, I'm not in that place where I can express my grief with T, but I really feel the sadness and wonder what that must be like.

It must have been such a hard experience to discuss the separation with your children. I think that it will be a good thing that you were able to show them that you are sad and hurt about the situation. I think that parent hide their emotions too often from their children.. Hopefully they saw that it is ok to be sad about this. Congratulations on taking this next step. It must have been scary. If you want to share, how did your children respond?

Good luck this week, I feel like it is going to be a hard one for me with divorce issues so I'll be thinking of you and reading how you are doing to gain some strength.