i just had a weird interaction with my T. i texted him about a deer i almost hit with my car. he said oh no, i said im ok, bla bla bla. he asked me if i am gonna pick up this lady that was in the group with us. we live near each other and she cant get there anymore i guess. if you remember we texted about this the other day and i got upset. i thought i made it pretty clear i didnt want to do that but maybe he thought i was just being really emotional. so he asked me again and i basically told him that i dont want to do it but i feel pressured. that i dont trust people. that i feel like i should quit the group. he said oh lord. calm down. you dont have to do anything. i said i am calm! which... i am . i am pretty freakin calm right now. he said 'clearly'. i told him maybe i am misinterpreting something but i get the feeling hes angry with me. he said no im not angry.

maybe its just the way we were communicating via text and i couldnt gauge his tone and demeanor. but i did feel like he was getting mad at me. what do you guys think? i know you dont know my T but we are pretty straightforward with each other, so it could just be him doing that or hes actually mad at me because i wont pick up this lady.