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Originally Posted by PinkFlamingo99
Thanks everyone. Im hurting again today. I keep thinking the pain over my ex-T is better and then it comes in a wave of hurt. She never even responded to my email saying goodbye after 5 yrs of her saying she loved me. I don't understand why I suddenly became so unloveable.
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I personally call these waves of hurt that I experience as "grief cycles". Your ex T hurt you badly. Her poor actions do not make you unloveable, they mean that she is really not a good T.
It's harder to heal when the relationship had many good things together with the bad.