T didn't provide much feedback. She did say my email probably made him defensive. I guess I can be harsh? She said I need to practice my "I feel..." statements again.

She told me to call him and leave him a msg because maybe he's uncomfortable with responding via email. And she said it would be inappropriate to discuss this in group, but would be more appropriate in an individual session. She also thinks I need an individual session with him so he can get to know me better. She said that a session would help him see I'm not resistant.