Hello I have an issue with my fetish, Im very turned on by women who either have a chubby belly or women who gain a lot of weight (around 20 or 30 pounds) I would love to rub a girls belly and play with it and have eat large amounts of foods until her belly sticks out like shes pregnant. the reason I bring this up is because this is an uncommon fetish and many girls wouldn't accept this since many women want to lose weight. also theres this girl that I like who lives in my town.....but shes very very skinny! (like really skinny) she has a great personality and a great smile but im afraid my "fetish" may get in the way since I look on youtube and other sites to look a pics of chubby/fat women. my question is should I pursue this girl knowing my fetish is strong, or try to find a chubby girl who is in to this? also can a fetish be controlled even if your partner may not be into it?