Some times He says:

1. He is SORRY - and gives me that "I'm a Heal Look"

2. He says he can't explain it - just that he is not in the mood, therefore, can't.

3. He knows that it hurts me, he is lost as to the reason why........

I do not believe HE does these things to hurt me or to make me mad.
I know there is an under lining reason to his actions where sex is concerned, of the emotional kind.

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Last night I went to him before he went to sleep and told him that I was going to be using Mr Rabbit tomorrow morning to satisfied my sexual need with, but that it would not help with my emotion need.
he said: is that supposed to make me feel guilty, bad or ashamed?
I said - No - I just wanted to let you know so that I did not have any guilt on my part when I do it - for we usually use these adult items together (and) you already told me no to sex.... then I kissed him and left the bedroom so that he could go to sleep for work in the morning.
his reply:- but I only said NO once, I stated that was enough for the last three days to me.

Out come: - I was awaken in the morning around 6 am by sweet gentle touches that had my body stirred and wanting, and we made LOVE before he went to work.

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Now tell me this....... Why could he not just have made love to me three days ago when I wanted to? *sigh*
.... that is one of the mysterious that makes me mad where MEN are concerned!!!!!