Exactly the same thing happened to me. Now I'm fat. Everyone complained when I was thin as a boy.

People say it's liberating to let go of things that happened in the past, but call me weak or whatever, but I don't think I could ever forgive these people for what they did, because they ruined my life.

Things like force-feeding, telling me not to waste food when I was full, etc. and now I've been fat since I'm 8 years old, and never managed to lose the weight.