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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro
Why not? Why does it bother you?
Is there anything bad in two people meeting each other? Can't someone come over his or her avoidance and dare to do things? It's easier with a person who is similar to you and share things with you. Avoidance is not a condem. I'm more and more convinced of it.
I feel happy when people here can meet each other.
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I don't expect you to understand what AvPD is being that you have BPD or what ever diagnoses you have given yourself this week. But to explain in a way you might understand
See it as severe Social anxiety, that might be easy for you to understand.
We (that is those with AvPD) have a fear of social interaction. Now I'm not saying social interaction doesn't happen. All I'm saying is we are very guarded to who we are, giving only enough away of ourselves not to fire up the ever constant thoughts that tend to look at all our actions under a microscope.
and i guess I'm just shocked, that those who say they have AvPD tend not to display a core issues of AvPD and give everything out except their phone number right off the bat.
Azul, I'm an Avie so its only natural that i'm going to be suspicious of anyone who doesn't display core issues.
I'll let you PM everyone with your thoughts of me!