And untop of this i have my grandfather who is bipolar is verbally and physically abusive and has been for 30 or plus years and since before i was born and he thinks he is always right and never wrong . Nobody lives in my grandparents house me and his wife have been living else where between different family members houses for about a year now. And he is also money hungry and dont care about anyone except money. He hates me cause i wont lend him money and trys to say its my fault if he loses the house. He even tried to tell me a couple months ago that i owed him money because my mom died and he had to raise me. But he has always been verbally and physically abusive he calmed down a few years and hasnt been so physically abusive but this past month between last month and this month he has gone after his 30 year old son and beat on him a few times which one of them was he accused his son of stealing his credit card. But when something goes wrong its mine or my uncles fault. I was there one of the times he beat on his son and i was having a fire outside with my friends too. I called the cops to. Nobody comes home unless apartment to get something. I dont even call it my home anymore. I have stuff in boxes in my room waiting because im trying to find an apartment because i refuse to live like that an keep house hopping. He has put so much stress on this family its ridiculous what one person can do to a family. And he also has drilled into my head yelling at me when i make a mistake or doing something wrong to the point where im afraid to makes mistakes because i think im gonna get screamed at for it. It dont matter who it is thats what my impulse because thats what my brains believes because i grew up with like that. It doesnt matter if you do all the right things or not he will find false with something.I dont think i mentioned he is money hungry also because he cant pay his bills. He lost his credit cards this month which is his fault because he charges his cards and takes out loans for stuff he dont have the money to pay off. And he wants to play king. He sits in his bed or on his chair in the living room and watches tv all day and doesnt clean up or do anything for himself the messes are obviously his because we dont stay there. He hasnt touched me but i always tell my friends if he puts a hand on me hes going out in a police car i dont care who he is.