Emotional needs with sex... I have never had that and I envey you all... As some are aware, I have not had a sex life with my husband for at least two years... Lots of issues going on. I know that he has been sexually active on his own, I have found the evindence... Today I found out that he witnessed as a child his own father taking himself in hand (as so to speak).. with female shoes... I long to have that desire that you all have...