You are great. I think we're doing well. BUT - You assumed the worst in me. You took something utterly innocent, something naive and really positive, and turned it in to something dirty. And whats more, that incorrect assumption you made horrified you. I horrified you. Again. Knowing that is how you feel - all id privileges are OFF the menu. You don't get to crawl up inside my id. EVER. How can I possibly let you shine your torch in all those nooks and corners when you find me at my most innocent, so horrifying. Its not happening. It will never happen. Stop fishing. We have enough to be going on with.