i need time to collect my thoughts and give a really honest answer...so silence is very important to me...to have my space to sort thru feelings...without being rushed.

problem is ..when i am thinking..i glance at T , to catch his reaction and he is usually looking at me...and i am like ohh think quick...answer already...and i come under pressure to say something..if T is not looking at me..and looking at his notes ..i think i will take my time to answer..