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as the subject heading suggests, i dont know what the hell i am.

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i just went to my T for the first time last week. he was asking the general get to know you questions and asked about my status - single, married, etc. No. Did I date? No. Did I ever date? No. Was I gay? No.

So he asked if I was asexual? I dunno? So of course I looked it up http://www.asexuality.org/home/ ...I don't know if I am or not? But here's something else to throw in the mix and add to the confusion!!

esthersvirtue - that was an interesting comment about any type of abuse leading to issues. I hadn't really considered that other forms could have an affect. but it makes sense.