I have been working through my attachment to my T. I still have intense moments of attachment but it used to consume my thoughts and I couldn't live my life. I am also relying on my husband more and not my T. This is huge. I was relying on my T for almost everything and I came to a scary realization that its not healthy and I can't do that. My T is still an awesome part of my life but now she is a part of my life and not my whole life.