Thanks, lately I've been conserned about my aggressiveness when I talk with anybody. Seems like I'm hyper aware of the way I'm reacting in the situation. I'm feeling some pressure internally to connect probably because I'm getting older and I don't want to be on the fringe. There is this older gentlemen in my neighborhood who spends his days wondering the streets looking in garbage bins. Nobody really says anything to him but they all express sympathy for his situation. I know this is extreme but I really don't want to be like him in a year or two - that would be the topper on an already long lonely stretch.