I think I've had breakdowns in the relationship, but they only tended to happen when I was in total despair and my perceptions were colored by how I was feeling about myself and my life. In those cases, I just had to bring myself back around to what I knew to be true about how my therapist shows up for me. There may have been a couple of times that actually had to do with something she said or did that she was responsible for, and she apologized each time, sincerely. I don't count those as breakdowns, though, because they were resolved when my therapist said and/or did something to remedy the situation.