Hi twirls and irishsj,

Yeah, I wonder why they chose such a grim name!
I hope its good, I dont qualify exactly enough to be able to go there and investigate myself.

I have been reading the posts about the s.i., and I feel I maybe should do a post about this to let people know its there as a resource.
I have been in other 12 step groups myself and would recommend them, they help you to get help to get off the destructive behaviour, and also it does help you to go deeper into working on your issues as you work through the steps.
I have had a lot of help from the fellowships but found there was information missing which I still needed, I couldnt heal some of my underlying issues (yet), I had a pd and needed and still do need to deal with this specifically. I tried therapy with crazymaking results . Planning next moves, taking time to consider, and listening and reading here I think is helping me.

RiverX