Each individual decides what they want for their therapy dollar and time.

Some want a close relationship, where they share their deepest, darkest secrets. Love, lust, murging, confusion, anxiety, all sorts of really intense emotional stuff.

Some want a thing to talk at. Money thrown down on the table. A business transaction.

Some want something in between or something else.

Many don't know until they're into the muddle of it.

You decide what you want to get from therapy and then go get it.

Hard work, no matter what your ultimate goal.