Thanks, Meander and Wants...
I marvel at couples who have been together for a long time, and to be truthful, don't know of one I would want to copy!
I think my grieving has more to do with letting go of romantic expectations, instilled from childhood onward.
I do know I'd never "settle" just for a partner for convenience....and would never just be with a man for financial security, etc.
I am going to post about meeting men in another thread here in Relationships...but will have to think about it for a while.
In the meantime, I am surveying my life as it is now...how it has evolved to what it has become.
Patty
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