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Originally Posted by Artchic528
What about being attracted to a certain gender or genders scares you? Do you live in an area where certain sexualities are frowned upon? Is it that your afraid of not being accepted by friends and family? Or is being with another person just frightening to you for one reason or another?
To truly love another you must first love and accept yourself. Work on letting go of inhibitions and social stigmas. Just let yourself BE yourself, if that makes sense.
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I think that not only am I afraid of being with someone, I also do not know if I can ever accept it. My family and others in the area will most likely never accept...but that may not be the main reason (although it does play a part). I think I am afraid of my own judgement the most...I guess I do not want to be vulnerable or ask myself the questions that I am afraid to ask...I think the biggest challenge will be loving and accepting myself...but I feel like you are right...I will have to face it and accept and even love it...But I still feel really scared...