Move on hun.

Not only are you two on completely different wavelengths, but he's actually quite controlling and is in fact a bully.

If it was simply a case of feeling smothered, you two could've had a chat on personal boundaries, but.....

Bulldozing you and manipulating you (if you love me) into a yes if you don't have a "satisfactory" reason behind your no?

He doesn't respect your boundaries at all. Most likely doesn't respect you either.

That....is....BAD!

Wanting to monopolize your time and manipulating you into doing so?

Bad

Driving past your house like a stalker in the middle of the night because he doesn't trust you?

Bad

Alienating your friends and attempting to isolate you?

Bad

Double standards with the snap chat / FB friends?

Bad

Spending the evening talking to a strange girl while he's supposedly out with YOU?

BAD

Way too many red flags in this relationship, and WAY too many for a new relationship.

Ditch him, you can do better.

I know you don't know me, but trust me, this guy is bad news. Carry on with him and these issues will get bigger and occur on a consistent bases. Wish I had been smart like you and reached out, could've saved myself years of torment, but I was ignorant, new to relationships, and stupidly thought it would improve with time....

Run, never look back, and raise the bar on your standards where romance is considered.