I just want to point out that opposites do on occasion attract. It is when one partner drops their own interests for the sake of the other that we see problems arise. Learning from and sharing the other's interests are good, but I don't believe healthy unless it is a two way street. I have come to realize some of my BF's interests are kind of cool while in turn I have opened up his world to hobbies of my own. I never had much of an interest in creative writing - only because it had never occured to me. Now I publish poems to a web site. Similarly he has discovered the outdoors is a grat place to be.

So what I am saying is don't be fearful of a man opposite to you just don't lose yourself in him.