Thanks for the advice everyone, it's strange and I've not been in a situation like this, it's either ' no chance move on' or.. Actually that's usually what happens lol, and it's strange as we get on so well I would like to stay friends with her, as I said she only had one other relationship before me five years ago and he treated her like ****.. We both still text as friends but it's sort of once or twice a day or Every other day, but that doesn't bother me, this site has definitely helped in terms of me not looking like a push over and bit desperate.. It's helped calm my mind.. Of course I miss her and would love to get her back but I'm happy that she's got the space she wants, and I have to.. Thanks again guys, I'll keep this updated see if anything is possible but atm in my mind is over we are friends, do what the hell I want in the meantime lol