Hi, I am new here and just wanting some points of view and advice. I have been in LDR for five years. It has been tumultuous at best. When ever there have been problems my bf always tells all and sundry about it, and there always seems to be a different new woman friend that he confides in who usually laps it up and plays mother hen. I am not generally a jelous type at all. At xmas my bf got a call from a woman he met on dating site years ago, she asked him if he was seeing anyone and he said yes. Recently we have had issues. On the weekend I went over to his. This new lady has cleaned out his bathroom, complained about the curtains I made and there was a jar of her coffee left on the bench. He says nothing going on, but my gut instinct says otherwise. Like I said I not normally the jelous type but this doing my head in