Hi Bykb8kd. Welcome to Psych Central (PC). I am sorry how difficult things have been with the breakup of your relationship and the severing of ties with her children. Sorry things are so tough now. No one can judge right or wrong. Maybe even you could heal quicker going beyond blame. Anger hurts me more than anyone else.

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