I personally feel any thing is allowed to take place in the "marriage bed" as long as BOTH partners are in agreement - if one does not feel comfortable with it then it should NOT be done.

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I personally feel any partner that will go else were when the other partner is not comfortable with a certain sex act is a HEAL and should be SHOT - drag him/her to the curb, throw out the trash.

P.S.
Hubby says when you have them at the curb - give him/her a face stomp.