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bebop said:
sorry but I wouldn't do that either if I didn't want to.

and... if he went out and found someone that would do it I would leave.

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<font color="blue"> AMEN!!! - there SISTER. </font>

... my husband and I have a very open and experimental sex life with each other, but our rule of thumb is - IF one of us is not comfortable or does not want to continue on with the act after they try it one time - then it is off the acceptable list - no longer open for discussion.