I have been going through a separation and now a divorce. I cried constantly when they left. Today I am questioning myself why am I bothering to cry for someone that I had to let go, with no closure? There is none, so I might as well stop beating up on myself and take care of me for a change. I know how it feels to cry non stop and you are tired of being miserable and depressed. I sit here and LOOK at things, not doing them. One day you will wake up and MOVE, when you are ready. Every ones grief and issues are separate and allow yourself the breathing room to heal slowly. In the meantime reward yourself by doing something fun for you.