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Originally Posted by Parva
Does your T know you read and post here?
If so, how did it come up?
Any consequences of that knowledge?
If not, why not?
How do you think they'd respond?
Any other thoughts?
I ask because my T definitely knows about the site, although I don't know if she ever comes here. My guess is that it wouldn't bother her personally, but I wonder if she would think it's not a great idea (too many outside opinions, etc...) I keep my posts as generic as possible in case she does troll through here. I suppose I wouldn't want her reading about some of the stuff I post, although we do ultimately talk about all of it.
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Yes, she knows.
It came up because I told her about it. I sometimes share things I've posted here or tell her about great ideas I've seen here or fears that have been stirred up here, etc.
As for consequences, well... she's asked me why I posted something occasionally, but... no actual consequences. I don't really see how she could impose any.
As for any other thoughts, I think most things can be helpful in moderation and it's the same with this site. It's good to be mindful about why we use it, keep things here in context and I find it helpful to be open with others about what I do- it's things hidden that I find more troublesome than the thing itself.