Thank you for all the feedback. I truly work very hard not to be a jealous girlfriend and try to allow him to keep his space. I don't look at his phone or question him about where he goes or talks to people. And honestly, I don't question his loyalty. However, but he is such a nice guy it can very easily get him into a sticky situation if the wrong person is in the mix. He doesn't seem to get that being a nice guy should have limits and there are boundaries. When he and I were discussing it his response was he just won't invite her to game with us, which was not my intention. He didn't seem to understand that it wasn't the girl so much as his behavior being inappropriate that upset me. I guess that's why I walked away feeling like my feelings of jealousy were the inappropriate ones. Maybe I will wait until after the funeral has passed and then approach him again. His behavior truly upset me and I don't know that he got that.