Sorry, is she distant with you how? Don't respond to your e-mail? Cancel chats? Don't put attention when you two talk? And about she being with somebody else: you mean as a friendship or as a lover? And why this cause you pain?

People will tell you that there are more in the word, but I don't think that advice honestly helps. There can be millions were you live but that doesn't mean you are going to find another friend/lover/partner and it can in fact make you feel even worse because since there is so much people out there, why can't I find more?

Tell me, how was life been since you and your friend parted (temporarely) ways? What do you do in the morning, afternoon and evening? Do you watch tv? Internet? Work? Try to produce something? Work? Talk with other people? What all of this things make you feel?