popuri88: Thanks so much for your comment. I hope he wasn't ambivalent and did like me to a degree, though post breakup I have questioned this. People I've talked to have told me they see a lot of red flags, so now I'm questioning things, but it's so confusing because he did seem like a good guy to me. What you said was very relevant because I do get very insecure and doubt my perceptions about a relationship (whether positive or negative). Hopefully we will both get better with this in time.

rcat: I wouldn't say we are opposites because I like reading just as much as him. And I used to be into video games even though I hadn't played much until he showed me ones he liked again. But I agree that it was unhealthy to have it be a one way street and I should have tried harder to share my interests. Thanks for the advice.