I agree with you. I don't think it was a smart thing to do. My T absolutely wanted to do me a favor (and maybe the other person too), but you never know how those things go of course... (And maybe I could have said 'no' too). In this case it didn't really work. although I have the impression this other person doesn't say a word about what happened. So now I feel as if I'm the bad one if I would talk about it. It sucks a lot.