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Originally Posted by jclown123
Hello I have an issue with my fetish, Im very turned on by women who either have a chubby belly or women who gain a lot of weight (around 20 or 30 pounds) I would love to rub a girls belly and play with it and have eat large amounts of foods until her belly sticks out like shes pregnant. the reason I bring this up is because this is an uncommon fetish and many girls wouldn't accept this since many women want to lose weight. also theres this girl that I like who lives in my town.....but shes very very skinny! (like really skinny) she has a great personality and a great smile but im afraid my "fetish" may get in the way since I look on youtube and other sites to look a pics of chubby/fat women. my question is should I pursue this girl knowing my fetish is strong, or try to find a chubby girl who is in to this? also can a fetish be controlled even if your partner may not be into it?
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JC, First welcome to PC. Second, enjoy your fetish with someone who is willing to let you do it. Trying to make a shoe fit isn't good. I have a few fetishes of my own and when I am with someone, I don't share them if I know that they aren't into it.
I am not going to get into my fetishes but my biggest is that I am into BDSM and I am a Dom, I like having someone being submissive to me. Fortunately, I can use this by taking control sometimes in bed without having to actually tell someone that this is part of who I am. The person I am with know actually likes that I take the lead in bed.
If you like BBW's look for them they are out there and they want someone to love them and appreciate them just like everyone else does. If you like that girl, you can like her for her and show your fetish to her. Most of us like to live in our fantasy/fetish lives, however they can't always be realistically brought out.
If you need to look up stuff online every once in a while. Do it. If you get involved with anyone. I would cation not to explore your online interests, unless you meet someone who you first talk to and explain your issue.
Keep it real man and let me tell you life is full of fun, so enjoy.
