yes, good to hear from you Jon! I understand about the highs and lows... though life without a spouse has been refreshing most of the time, I still hit spells where I sure wish I wasn't alone. Hang in there, the more self assured you become, the more likely you'll find someone, in the future, who loves you for that. 6 more weeks? wow, my divorce took 6 weeks total yep 26 years wiped away, Dissolved (no divorce in FL) in 6 weeks.