I held a grudge against my mother for years for so many reasons that I just don't want
to get into. Now my mom is 75 and has Alzhiemers. I was her care taker for a year and
a half. During that time I realized that she was no longer the woman I knew before and
I also realized that she definitely had serious mental health issues that she never
got any help for. Now I just feel bad for her and visit her when I can.
It doesn't change the things she did in the past but at least it is an explanation and
that has helped me let it go.