Its not about it being open to interpretation... This is not about rape or abuse, so please don't even take this there.


Its about learning how to say no to non threatening people, because some of us struggle with this very simple concept.


Its about learning the different intensities of no's, because different situations call for different tones, and BEING COMFORTABLE with it.

Imagine I shouted "NO *****ING WAY!" At my 11 year old daughter because it's the only "no" that I'm comfortable with...

Like jo says, I never said nor implied it means anything else than what it does.


With all due respect, please don't make my innocent reply to be about you and what you've been through, this is about the OP.