I agree with you that most likely it's just a memory. I know the feeling.

Also I've been there before. If time passes and no one else comes along, rather than waiting and being patient we start thinking we should get back with ex. Typically it's a bad idea. Give it time

I am a bit surprised though he has long distance bills. An hour drive? Or even two? What kind of phone does he have? I commute an hour to work every day and my work isn't long distance bill. My BF lives an hour away opposite direction and same thing! We all have different phones and plans but none charges extra for one hour away unless of course he lives in a different country and he pays international fee. I am not trying to be funny. I live not far from a border so it's possible.

I do agree that an hour drive makes dating harder but it's doable. Gas prices are not as high now. Does he work?
I think maybe he just made up a reason and it's not real reason.

I told people before that I am too busy for dating and it's too far of a distance and I wasn't even lying, it's true. But then you meet a person for whom all of a sudden you aren't too busy and nothing is too far and things could work out.

Anyways keep talking about it in therapy and I think you'll meet someone new. I think what you are feeling is very normal




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