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Default Sep 30, 2015 at 07:49 AM
 
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Originally Posted by popuri88 View Post
I feel you. I'm really good with first contact (actually it depends on what kind of first contact it is) and I have no trouble dealing with strangers, for example. It's the people I see on a daily basis, semi-acquaintances or people I "know" in some way that make me feel pressured.

Is there any chance you may have opened up (making an advance in your relationship) to this person and then got intrusive thoughts of being judged about it which made you regret opening up in the first place?
Always this possibility of rejection is in my thoughts. I have always these prethinking and postthinking and while thinking.lol!
I know this is what stucks me to take risks. Although I changed a lot about it. It was worse before. At least, now I'm able to do many things and take a relatively functional life.
But, my main friends are online, because of the thing I mentioned about being confortable behind a keyboard.

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