My first impulse when I read that "do you think of people as good or bad" question is to think it doesn't make sense at all, but when I read real situations where splitting happens I just relate completely. There are other threads about splitting on this forum.

For example, if I don't hear from my boyfriend the whole day and I call him to find out he's just fine and wasn't busy and all I will get angry, assume that he forgot me, that he never really liked me and that he's probably giving attention to someone else, maybe soon he'll be cheating me or something. It's a really overwhelming feeling that makes me assume the worst about him and want to detach fom him.