I have always said "to each, his own". I think that society has shifted into more of a rush rush, irresponsible phase. I have no room to talk when it comes to speedy relationships (not from just met to bed, but the "I know this is the right relationship"), but I have just gone with the flow. That is my personality. Everyone is different. Do what is right for you and forget about everyone else. Despite the fact I hate the phrase it is valid "not your monkeys, not your circus".