Well - and im only saying this because i made the same mistake myself, not just once, but three fricken times, only difference between you an me being im the girl and i dint have kids - we married for a pretty face instead of the brains or personality behind it. Now youre tied up and im all alone. We messed up. Its not THEIR fault we made bad decisions. We chose to get involved with them. No one forced us. Yes there oughta be a law against being such an ahole, but which ahole are we talkin about - them or us?? They dont know any better and act like idiots; we should know better but still act like idiots.