<font color="#000088">Well, maybe your friend has no idea that you actually care. If you haven't contacted this friend when you say your worried, than it seems that maybe you're not as worried as you think. You're friend may not see themself as a user, or even believe that they have done any of the things that they are being accused of, and may think that they were just given up on for no apparent reason. If it is an illness causing this friends behavior, you never know. They may not even realize that they did anything wrong in the first place. And may just be feeling abandoned. Sometimes people have to do things to get their needs met, especially when others won't help them anymore. I don't mean money wise, or that kind of stuff. But like with transportation or something, if all the sudden no one is willing to help them with rides to get their bills paid, or things like that, and they are sick, and aren't supposed to be walking. They kindof have to, to get their needs met, just for an example. So with that example, it may look like they were using others for rides the whole time before. But when others started cutting them off, they had no choice but to walk to get to where they needed to go, sick or not! Maybe your friend doesn't even know that you still care at all! Or it could be the illness as you said before. Some people are like that, but theirs always two sides to a story with a freindship like that. </font>