Hi - you are participating in a social activity right here. This is a start. Possum220 has some great ideas. When you want to start a new social activity it doesn't mean you have to dive right in and chat up strangers. Could you just try feeling out situations first? Many educational courses allow you to sit in on classes just to see what they are all about before committing financially to them. Volunteering is an excellent way to meet positive people. I love the idea of helping animal welfare places. Animals give so much love and wonderful contact. And the focus is on the care of the animals. If you like writing do you also like reading then? What about joining a library book club? Check the community resources where you live for community groups. There are many with lots of people looking to meet others without pressure.

I am glad you are here sharing your feelings with us. I hope to hear from you again.