I find life is not an option. We have to live what we are dealt with. The beauty of it is we can select what we want to remember and what we choose to forget. Make peace with your past then bury it behind you, move forward. Funny, just as I want to live medically I am challenged with diseases that make you die. It just goes to show, we are not really in control of our lives. The one who made us is. Just be good to yourself. That I find for me is not caring what others say about me or believe, it is who I know that I am and being at peace with that. Hope that helps. Blessings...