I will always keep our secrets among us , I wont betray him ever but I know he's told me so much but can't tell me something important but wishes he can so oi question is this why he went to another girl? Because of our friendship / and maybe more at times , and his close association with my family , who were like his family is that why ge can't tell me he said he knows I wont judge him but can't bring himself to tell me but with his heart he wishes he could , maybe cause he doesn't have history with this new girl, that goes yrs back , I k ow they said history /long friendship can make it hard, does this sound right , he thinks I would have memories of how he should be ? Has anyone ever dealt with this ? I'm trying to be there as a friend I reach out , dealing with the gf factor is heartbreaking but I don't wanna lose my friend but losing the friendship is awful , I promised him yrs ago I wouldn't give up on him , and i won't I will be there keep trying but I'm struggling , how do I help /i want my friend back .